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Being Matured.

Maturity is not age, maturity is experience. Maturity is a state of being experienced enough to know how life operates and also how to respond to it.  Each and everyday of our lives exposes us to the different things that the day comes with. These days that we get gathers to form months and the months turns out to become years which forms our age.  So each year comes with an age, and in the year therein lies the experience. Getting experience is determined by how life is to us, the way we respond to it, also the things we at last learnt from it.  We get age by nature and the coming together of days, months and years ; but maturity is up to us to develop.      So as much as we are growing, it's good we get matured as well.  -Emanuel Ina.        STAY POSITIVE!.

Early marriage, it's effects and possible solutions

Early marriage or child marriage is an official or unofficial union of two persons of different sex, at least one of them has not reached 18 years of age. It is believed that due to their age, under-aged spouses are not able to give full consent to marriage, and therefore early marriages are often recognised as a violation of Human rights and the rights of a child.                    Causes of early marriages 》Cultural reasons 》Social factors 》Economic factors 》Religious beliefs 》Poverty 》Gender discrimination 》 Ignorance                Problems of early marriages 》 Domestic violence 》 Marital abuse and food deprivation 》 Lack of access to information and education.       Solutions to the problems of early             marriages 》 Education ( parents mostly) 》Empower the girls 》economic support 》Speaking always against it 》Programm...

Three things I've learnt about people.

1. I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. 2. I've learned that no matter how much you care, some people don't just care back. Such is life. 3. I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you have to forgive them for that. For They are humnas, just like yourself.

Life after yesterday.

If most people have the opportunity to bring back their yesterday they would, so that they can correct some of the mistakes they did. But you see yersteday is gone already,  but you have today to avoid the mistakes of yesterday so that tomorrow you wont have much regrets as you do today; for a time will come that today will become yersteday, tomorrow will become today and yesterday will become the today that you can never have again but just the results. Life is always ironically, the more you live the more you see its other parts.        Conclusion ; Live your life in your day in a way that even if you never have to wake again, you have gained. - Emmanuel Ina.

Two honest questions to ask yourself.

#You cannot hate everybody around you and you cannot also love everybody around you, why then try to force yourself loving everyone and hating everyone at the same time?. #why try to walk with people who can't add value to you and they will be the first to condemn you when you fail, is it not better you walk alone?,  remember that it is those who know you very well that knows your weak point.  - Emmanuel Ina. 

What you should know about cold water and warm water.

Being optimistic

Sunrise is delicious, rain is refreshing, wind braces us up. Snow creates exhilarating( to make happy),. There are no bad weather or seasons. We only make it feels so. A change of feelings about the weather and a better look at it will brace us up.  Let's be optimistic! 

A word from prince Timothy.

Prince Timothy Makama Wrote: Every king was once a crying baby and every building was once a picture. The person you admire so much was once nobody, the most anointed man you see was once a church member. The person you attended his or her wedding was once a chief bachelor or spinster. So why worry in life ?! Its not about where you are today but where you will reach tomorrow. Alphabet “O” which stands for Opportunity. "O" is absent in “yesterday” but available once in “tOday” And Thrice in “tOmOrrOw” So Stay Positive!

Childbirth

Childbirth , also known as labour and delivery , is the ending of a pregnancy by one or more babies leaving a woman's uterus by vaginal passage or Caesarean section . The most common way of childbirth is a vaginal delivery . It involves three stages of labour: 1. The shortening and opening of the cervix, 2. Descent and birth of the baby, 3. The delivery of the placenta.   The first stage begins with crampy abdominal or back pains that last around half a minute and occur every ten to thirty minutes. The crampy pains become stronger and closer together over time. During the second stage pushing with contractions may occur, And  In the third stage delayed clamping of the umbilical cord is generally recommended.                          How babies are born.    Most babies are born head first ; however about 4% are born feet or buttock first, known as breech. Typically the heads enter the pelvis...
To be a woman is not an easy thing you have to become cautious or careful over everything. To be a man also is not easy  because you have to bear the consequences  of being careless over certain things. -Emmanuel Ina.

Relationship facts.

Everybody is not perfect, and everybody cannot be the same. Never allow the imperfections of your partner to Cause an edge to your relationship. That is why you are there to assist. Never allow little issues form Long lines over your love.  It takes humility to maintain a relationship even if you are the richest and most opportuned. - Emmanuel Ina.

Never fight alone.

Never fight alone, you can win but you will have limitations or possibly win late. Work with people who share in same goal with you. Never force people to stand by you, everyone is busy pursuing their own goals, only give them reasons to be of help to you if they can. Carry everybody along but make sure you don't reach there with everybody because some may have turned to become your enemies or rebells  even before you reach. - Emmanuel Ina.

You are important!

Never give everybody equal access to your life, it's harmful. Not everyone deserves to know all about you, Not everyone deserves to visit you at all times, Not everyone deserves to call you at anytime of the day, Not everyone deserves to know all of your life's secrests, Not everyone deserves to talk to you anyhow. Respect people, BUT never make yourself look so foolish and low esteemed all in the name of respect. You're important, Value yourself!. - Emmanuel Ina.

Treasure yourself!

Treasure your uniqueness it's a gift given to you to enjoy and share it with others. No one can reach to others the same way you do. No one can comfort with your kind of words. No one can be cheerful and lighthearted and joyous in your way. No one can smile your smile. The gift of yourself was given you to enjoy and share. You are the best person to inspire yourself. Treasure yourself you are unique. - Emmauel Ina.