Ina Emmanuel

        The world we live in is made up of so many things, and some of these things tends to be the reason why we are either happy or depressed.      Depression comes most times when we have done all of our best to ensure there is a success to a particular thing/issue, but at the end if it all, we never succeed and all of our energy, time and resources seem to be lost. We are depressed because we never hoped for  a negative result, haven gone through all of the stress required.     AREAS OF OUR LIVES THAT WE ARE                            DEPRESSED         One can be depressed on any aspect of life, it all depends on your ability to overcome the situation. It may be that your health or that of your loved ones has become your source of depression, late marriage or even crisis in marriage, lack of a payable good job, seeking for an upgrad...

Disappointment is created when our expectations are denied or when we get less than what we actually wanted from people.  Simple difination of disappointment is when you put all of your trust on anything or someone. Every disappointment comes with lessons, it's fair if you are offended or angry when disappointed but is better if you learn what not to do next time when you are to entrust yourself to anybody.  Peopled you must  definitely disappoint you!. Smile if they are truly sorry and  forgive them. Life is full of disappointments so expect it from anybody and never pay back. That shows your maturity on the issues of life. Stay positive.

Follow your dreams! Refuse to get moved by what people think or say about you. People around you may think you are not doing anything to better your life. Does it matter what people around you say or think? For the fact that your plans are kept away from people doesn't mean you are not taking the right steps in living your dreams. Hear me out! Don't give ears to their advice. They have no idea how mighty your dreams are. They can't see beyond the present. They fail to see what you see. They know not that big dreams require big plans. They have no idea that the foundation that is being laid for a bungalow is different from the one for a skyscraper. Keep moving forward. Pursue your dreams according to plans. Don't get derailed by those side talks. Only you know the good life you've imagined. Go confidently in its direction. Don't let anyone mess up with your plans. The outcome of your plans will amaze the world. You deserve more than what people...

Life may not always be the way we want it to, or give us the results we expect. Sometimes certain things happens and it will be achieve all our efforts are in vain.    More even, our own friends and loved ones are the ones that gets us more hurt, frustrated and heart aching. All these are the path way to our greatness; keep pressing on, keep doing the good you have been  doing... Someday when you look back you will smile because you you refused giving up. STAY POSITIVE.

  At every stage in life; there will always be a battle to fight, a reason to cry, scenario to fear, responsibilities to handle, challenges to respond to, wounds not ready to be healed, sicknesses to hurt us, broken relationships to our detriment, friends untrue, troubles unavoidable, results not expected and many more. As we progress in life these things don't vanish away totally; some go, some remain while some are replaced with others of their kind perhaps, more hectic than them. No one can truly succeed in life without having to conquer, defeat, endure, overcome and gain mastery over life's challenges and circumstances. But through all of these; we need to be encouraged. Provided there is the opportunity to exist still, there is hope therefore BE ENCOURAGED!. A time will come that you will have to tell younger generations how you conquered, if you get discouraged and give up there won't be a good story for you to tell. Be encouraged; you will succeed, you wi...

Be thankful, always be thankful, continue to be thankful, never stop being thankful. 》Should you find it hard to sleep tonight; remember the homeless people who have no bed to lie in. 》Should you have had a bad day at work, think of people who has been out of work for many months struggling to feed their family. 》Should you find yourself at at loss and pondering what is life all about, asking "what is my purpose?", be thankful, there are those who didn't live long enough to get the opportunity.   In everything just be thankful, better days lies ahead, things will always get better and soon. -Emmanuel Ina.

Prince Timothy Makama Wrote: Every king was once a crying baby and every building was once a picture. The person you admire so much was once nobody, the most anointed man you see was once a church member. The person you attended his or her wedding was once a chief bachelor or spinster. So why worry in life ?! Its not about where you are today but where you will reach tomorrow. Alphabet “O” which stands for Opportunity. "O" is absent in “yesterday” but available once in “tOday” And Thrice in “tOmOrrOw” So Stay Positive!

Sometimes all you need may just be more of the same thing, not necessarily something new.

There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren't the way you had hopped they would be. That's when you have to tell yourself that things will get better and no situation is forever. If yesterday could give way for today to show forth, definitely thoss unpleasant things will find their way. Don't make yourself feel depressed to show that you don't have an option. Of course  you do. And that's hope. No matter how ugly things may be it will always never last forever. There is hope. - Emmanuel Ina.

Sometimes you may feel like not speaking to anybody because of the intent of how much you have been hurt, don't kill yourself there us hope. Life is full of hope, just keep calm. - Emmanuel Ina.

Everyday We get caught up in things that do not deserve our attention!!  Many people are been thrown away  daily by the world  because of accusations. Many days go by and  people want to be angry because of the Injustice done to them but let's remember that it's the peace inside that is the important thing in life!!.  Search for that Peace. It will carry you through the toughest times in your life!! Good people are getting harder to find and the bad are increasing. God has a purpose for us all. Continue and try always to be calm within for this is  how we learn greatness!!. STAY POSITIVE.

Think what a remarkable, unduplicatable, and miraculous thing it is to be you. Off all the people who have come and gone on the earth, since the beginning of time, not ONE of them is like to you. No one who has ever lived or is to come has had your combination of abilities, talents, appearance, friends, acquaintances, burdens, connection and opportunities, NO not one. No finger prints like yours. No one has the same combination of secrets inside, jokes, and family members like you.  The few people who laugh at all the same things you do, don't laugh the way you do. They don't even sneeze the same way as you do. No one is loved by the same combination of people that love you. NO ONE!.  No one before and no one to come that can be like you. My dear you are ABSOLUTELY UNIQUE!   Value it and never forget forget it. 

Everybody in the world who wakes up in the morning gets up with a huge opportunity each day.  Many people are so ignorant of the fact that the privilege to wake up each day is a big blessing.  Everyday you wake indicates that there is a value you still need to add to the world. It could be that the day won't be complete without you.  Each day we have is just like a cheque of a million dollar or even more. The time is what tells you how the movement of the day is going, but the day is always saying to you that you can't depend on time to decide what to do with it. Time does not really determine our day, we determine our day by ourselves and set time as a guide. So wake up each day with a plan and a determination, don't let time obstruct until you have achieved something. STAY POSITIVE. - Emmanuel Ina .

When we lose ignorantly, it doesn't hurt us much compared to when we lose cautiously; because we feel our knowledge should have given us such direction not to become victims of loss. But really that proves the fact of not trusting everything at times including ourselves. Better to hope on something than to put all of our trust on it. Sometimes when we are cheated, the best thing to do is to calm down and learn so that we won't fall a fool again. The world is full of people who always want to take advantage of others.  To get something of quality you have to spend in a quality way.  The spending hits us hard at times but anything that will be of benefit to you, never hesitate in sacrificing for it. You don't have to force yourself over everything in life, force yourself only to please yourself and you will be happy forever while you live.  Life is to precious to live timid. - Emmanuel Ina. STAY POSITIVE!

Each gain or benefit you get automatically produces a loss or sacrifice, why you don't really feel it is because the gain is always higher than the loss. No one ever succeeded in any aspect of life without lossing or making certain sacrifices. We always feel bad when we loss certain things because of how much we laboured towards it's Sucess. Possibly we invested in a business and it crumbled, or we had other things we invented in and never got what we expected. Sometimes getting angry or discouraged is normal as humans,  but the sacrifice begats the profit. lost begats gain, pains begat freedom, labour begat a living child, crying begat courage. Do not feel so bad when you are not privilledge over certain things, it may not just be your appointed time.  In life one must loss something and one must benefit something. Life is full of irony and we live by then. ~ Emmanuel Ina. STAY POSITIVE!

Our thoughts are part of us. We cannot see them, but we can carry them along with us everywhere we go.  Some are heavy while some are not. The heavy thoughts are sometimes noticeable with our facial expression, the good and happy thoughts keeps us smiling all the time even to non living things or some category of domestic animals. Just as fuel is prone to fire, so every human being in the world is prone to evil thoughts. Having anything at grassroot  is not that serious until we are ready to take full responsibility for that particular thing, thereby we adopt every strategy to maintain and keep that particular thing safe as ours. So also is the role of evil thoughts in our hearts. Sometimes you come to discover that you spend hours thinking over something that is irrelevant and your thoughts are negative. Evil thought begins with condemnation of people and things that come across us daily or on regular basis. The moment you start seeing the negative part of anything...

It's not the music that makes people cry, it's the memories that it brings anytime it is being listened to that makes people cry. It's not the size of the load that makes you tired it's how you carry it.  Life is not about what happened to you, it's about how you handle what happens to you. Crying and worrying will never take away the agonies of yesterday but it will surely affect the joy of today. Try as much as possible to let go of what is gone and enjoy what is left because half is better than non. 24 hours is the greatest asset you receive everyday spend it widely now that you can.  Forgive yourself of your past mistakes and forgive those who wrong you and move on with your life. Whoever put you in this situation has already moved on while you are here killing yourself. Forgiveness gives you happiness while unforgiving and revenge consumes your joy. Let God fight on your behalf because there is a limit on how much you can fight for yourself.  Life g...

    LIVING HAPPY  It's not the music that makes people cry it's the memories it brings or reminds us of. It's not the size of the load that makes you tired it's how you carry it. Life is not all about what happened to you, it's all about how you handle whatever happens to you. Crying and worrying will never take away agonies of yesterday but it will surely affect the joy of today.    Let go of what's gone and enjoy what's left. Your time here on this earth is limited so spend it wisely and happily. Forgive yourself of your past mistakes and forgive those who wrong you and move on with your life.    Whoever put you in this situation has already move on with life so why kill yourself regretting and still mourning?. Forgiveness give happiness while unforgiving and revenge consumes your joy.    Let God fight on your behalf because there is a limit on how you can fight for yourself. People might have ruined your past, messed up your present ...