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The Pregnancy 1.


 THE PREGNANCY 1.

®Sir G.O


" But why did she have to do such a thing?. She had almost everything she wanted. She was doing well even in her society, why then did she take her life with her on hand leaving children behind without a mother ? ". A nurse said painfully while speaking to one of her colleague. 


My sister got pregnant while she was still in the university. It was something shameful to I and our family but we never threw her away since we all agreed that it was a mistake and no one was beyond it and we made her saw reasons why she needed to keep the baby and learn how to live with any other thing that would follow thereafter. Of course managing the stress of taking care of the baby and schooling won't be an easy thing but we planned how to make it easier for her even though we did not disclose that to her at first otherwise she may feel what she did was right. 


The father behind the pregnancy never really showed up. Truth was that he could not deny being responsible for the pregnancy but he was still depending totally on his parents for his well being while schooling and so he could not care so much for the baby and her mother and that was what led to his regular absenteeism in handling his responsibilities.


A year after my sister graduated from the University, she became pregnant again and this time it was for another person entirely. Her first child was by that time a bit grown and you can't imagine the kind of love she had for him. After all she went through no one would ever believe that she will be pregnant again let alone for another person entirely being responsible for it. She had applied for a job and done the interview waiting to be called upon to start working and then she got  pregnant. To say that we took it likely with her will be a great way for an elderly person to cover up lies. All she could do was to plead with us because even she herself knew that she messed up.


" With a sorrowful heart I stand before you all today to announce the spiritual and physical lifelessness of our Dear sister and mother ; the leader of the prayer band. We all can attest to the fact that she was a good person with a good heart. The irony behind her death keeps everyone of us aback and dumbstruck but our dernier prayer is that God will have mercy upon her. My soul is slight even as I stand before you all today as both her pastor and her spiritual father ". The priest said and held the microphone in an horizontal manner to observe a minute of silence for the deceased. He really felt her death for they were very close and as a prayer leader that she was, she really added more life to his ministry. 


After two years of working my sister was able to buy a house that she and her children would stay, also she got a small car for her up and down movements. The job she was doing was a very good one and she actually did not lack many things before she .......................

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