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Impatience 2

•Most people are imbibed with the concept of fear and that has resulted to the notable characteristics of impatience in them. Fear of failure, fear of criticism, fear of being asked certain questions that we have not the answer yet, fear of being cast away, fear of being mocked or insulated, fear of loosing loved ones/friends, fear of being delayed, fear of regrets etc. The more fear grows the more strengthened impatience becomes.
•When people get depressed to the point of anger over a particular thing/issue; to an extent impatience becomes a companion. When you have tried all you supposed to be the solution and yet there is no result impatience begins a proposal of showing forth. Most times people get off the circle of holding on still for a while when anger sets in.
    EFFECTS OF IMPATIENCE
There are enormous effects of impatience that are so Paramount in our present dispensation. Continuous regrets has been the most notable penalty for impatience. There is a tendency to imagine if the hands of time could be turned back so that there can be an adjustment but the plea is not ever granted except there is room for amendments. "If I had known", " had I know ", " I wished I knew it was going to end like this " and many more synonyms becomes our basis of regrets and most times the regrets are endless. .
             REMEDY TO IMPATIENCE
Time heals every wound and pain. If you can hold on a little More longer, you will discover that you made the right choice. Be patient enough to wait for what rightfully belongs to you. Even if it hurts to wait, bear it because its for some period of time and its better to wait than to be acquainted with the regrets Impatience will produce. Keep being positive and always work towards being the best even while waiting; eliminate all your fears and be happy for the success and victory of others. You can learn from them but don't develop anger or create rooms for comparison because you are entirely different from them. The delay in waiting will yield result but the hurrying in impatience is always a broad way to regrets.
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Ina Emmanuel
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