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Neglected things that keeps people away from you.


1. Complaining all the time. Even if you have reasons to complain sometimes its better to suggest a solution than to be casting blames& talking too much.

2. Depending on others to help you do everthing. Even if your efforts are not very much try and look for how to reduce stress for others you are dependent on otherwise they will pull back from you because nobody in this present world is ready to sustain a liability.

3. Talking too much. When you tie people down with your so many words, they are bored and will not like to really come around you again especially when they have more important things to do.  Talk at the same range with people or sometimes allow them speak more than you,  but don't let them do all of the talking to avoid a dull atmosphere.

4. Unorganised appearance.  Look smart, look neat,  have some smiles on your face when you are to meet with people.  People run away from those whose appearance doesn't entail maturity.  If there is need to talk -in OR wear shoes perhaps goggles please do even if it's just for a walk,  people will get attracted to you instead of running away.

5. Inability to make decisions. Learn to make certain decision and stay by it; if it doesn't work out well learn from it it's better than not deciding at all. When you allow people to make all the decisions and you are confused on decisions to make when called upon,  they stay awayfrom you believing that you can't contribute to them.

6. Condemning others.  They may join you to so much condemn others but in that some of them will always look for a step away from you so that you won't condemn them before others.
Allow them condemn you can comment thereafter for or against the person.  Speak good of people,  observe their bad sides but you don't have to tell if out all the time for it to be noticed, except you have  a proposed solution......

-Emmanuel Ina.


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