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Anger

   
People commonly say " Anger is just one letter away from danger" so everyone must watch it. That is true, but judging from the way things go on everyday and how the society is being situated, anger now has a very prominent identification in the lives of people because everyone  has his/her feelings and they react in different ways to show how they feel especially when they are spoken wrongly to or in a harsh way.
People have their different feelings, manner of approach and mode of reacting to things they come across as they live their daily lives. One may say something and another person interprets it in another way differently. One may mistakenly do something and it will be translated in another way by another, thereby causing arguments, exchange of words and sometimes a fight.
It is very important to know that everyone in the world has right(s) to be angry, but let's look at it from this perspective ; Your maturity is proved in your ability to handle and control the things that gets you angry. Controlling your anger most times may not be an easy task, but controlling the source of anger is a choice that you can make even before getting angry.
Telling people how bad you feel and not responding to what ever they say further is a way to control anger. Your point is already made, so you don't need to exchange words with the other person to prove your points. Continuous  repetition of your view will definitely give access to the mismanagement of words between you and other people.
 So which is better? To handle the situation or show your angry mode just to terrify others and end up regretting some certain actions you took while you were angry.
Anger is best controlled by self not by how much people try to calm you down.
Emmanuel Ina.
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