Daily Communication and Offences.

All too often, there is always a difference between what we say and what we think we have said. And also how we feel we have handled peoole and how they think they have been treated.

When such 'gaps' occur between the content and that action, it is often started that there has been a break - down in communication.

Sometimes the break down is allowed to become so serious that the gap becomes a chasm; relatives in family ceasing to speak to one another, managements and trade unions refusing meet, friends refusing to see each other, colleagues passing each other without pleasantries etc.

When people communicate, either as individuals or within groups, problems inevitably occurs.

Instructions may be impossible to carry out, offence is taken at a particular remark, a directive is ambiguously phrased or people's attitude are coloured by jealously, resentment or frustration.

So when we communicate, we should try to be as simple as possible and whenever ever we have the opportunity, let's explain to people why we have to say what we certain things or behave in certain ways.
People's mode of interpretation is entirely different.
STAY POSITIVE.
~ Emmanuel Ina.

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