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The Marriage Becall PART 2

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.....Everyone returned to their homes, except for my step mother who had been with me.

while screaming in the hospital in pain and agony, I started remembering how much we spent, how awesome the occasion went and many other  things. If we had known that she would die three days after her one year old birthday, we wouldn't have gone through such stress and spend that much.


How do I explain to my husband and his family. Of course I must be forced to take an oath, I can't bargain that. Why Lord, why?. I echoed and screamed the more.


...... My husband divorced me because he couldn't just stand the pain and embarrassment. My pleadings did more harm than good. I couldn't believe that my so much loving husband will treat me the way he did because of the death of our child.


The issue was that we couldn't trace what exactly led to the death of my baby. All the test and scans showed that my baby was alright. That made my husband believed more that I killed my own baby in the spiritual realm as according to the accusations placed on me.

....... I had to return to the village with my step mother.

I became a living sorrow, I went through much pains. I was not really the praying type, I only believed in love, understanding, caring and the rest as the best way to keep my marriage strong. But this problem kept me up because I really needed my white collar clean.


You can't imagine how much pain I went through and the shame I had to bear all alone.


...... I ran inside, followed the backyard's exit door and went straight to a near by village when I noticed it was my husband with few of his friends, driving to park his car in our family compound.


......" Mama I am here to apologize for everyting and take my wife back with me. I know it won't be esay but please hear me out.

Four months ago, I lost my mother and she confessed that she was the reason behind all the troubles in my marriage". He said to my step mother who was more furious than myself over the way he treated me his wife.


It took over five mothns before I finally returned to him and had things settled.


..... Today I am heavy and this time; it's  twins!.....


Some truths;

# There is no marriege on earth without challenges.


## Praying earnestly before getting married is the first sacrifice to make if you really  want to enjoy your  Marriage life.

(RELATIONSHIP FACTS by SIR G.O )

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