Most people say they don't like arguing but the fact remains that in order to properly buttress your point , sometimes you need to stress on what your view is, But this becomes difficult when there is an opposition or a third party that wants you to listen to their own point of view contrary to yours.
Everybody argues for a particular reason, and everybody have their reasons based on their thinking and conclusion.
Voices are raised up when people find it difficult to conclude on an issue after some moments of argument. As voices are raised up, feelings and emotions begins to set in, anger begins to sprau up gradually.
In no short time insults begins to be amidst the arguments and of course it is always a reciprocal scenario. As the pressure increases, if self control is lacking, everyone goes home with a squeezed face and sometimes a hurt body or with animosity.
Argument is not mandatory but in a case where it is necessary, letting our your view is the best option. You don't need to deliberate on it, if you feel what you view is the right thing.
Allow the third to look for evidence to your pint of view. The pressure and much talk applied to your point of view is what will make others want to continue the argument.
Best way to conclude an argument is evidence, and if you can't have your evidence with you at that moment, it becomes your responsibility to look for it and clear yourself.
Argument has it noxious effect on relationships, family, etc and of course it doesn't bring peace. So stop the argument today and look for evidence. What do you think?..
~Emmanuel Ina.
Everybody argues for a particular reason, and everybody have their reasons based on their thinking and conclusion.
Voices are raised up when people find it difficult to conclude on an issue after some moments of argument. As voices are raised up, feelings and emotions begins to set in, anger begins to sprau up gradually.
In no short time insults begins to be amidst the arguments and of course it is always a reciprocal scenario. As the pressure increases, if self control is lacking, everyone goes home with a squeezed face and sometimes a hurt body or with animosity.
Argument is not mandatory but in a case where it is necessary, letting our your view is the best option. You don't need to deliberate on it, if you feel what you view is the right thing.
Allow the third to look for evidence to your pint of view. The pressure and much talk applied to your point of view is what will make others want to continue the argument.
Best way to conclude an argument is evidence, and if you can't have your evidence with you at that moment, it becomes your responsibility to look for it and clear yourself.
Argument has it noxious effect on relationships, family, etc and of course it doesn't bring peace. So stop the argument today and look for evidence. What do you think?..
~Emmanuel Ina.
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