The Marriage Becall PART 1

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....Three days after the birthday celebration of my one year old daughter, we lost her to the cold hands of death. It has not been easy for me for the past four years, since most of my babies that were to survive all returned through blood.

My step mother's disturbance and troubles always kept me in intense pressure even more than my husband's family.

...We had alot of people invited for the birthday celebration; my husband's colleagues as well as mine. Family members, friends, neighbors and many more well wishers.

I remember telling my husband " darling if you will buy a gift for your daughter, you will have to buy for me also because, it's like mother like daughter and not the other way around ".

I saw the joy of fatherhood flowing from this well body built handsome man as he agreed without any argument. Little did we know that our joy was to be gone too soon.

... My step mother have been around since I gave birth and hubby's mother came visiting twice before the birthday.

.... Everywhere was filled with life as we celebrated the new born baby and the end of my barrenness.

I and my husband spent alot for the birthday almost achieve it was our wedding reception. The birthday celebration went exactly the way we planned it and the end was achieve we shouldn't close but we just had to.

..... That day, immediately I started noticing her breathe ceasing, I jumped out from the bed and off we went direct to the hospital.

In less than an hour, my cry kept the hospital disordered and the nurses had to look for a way of keeping me in one of the ward to prevent the disturbance of other patients.

My husband travelled immediately after the occasion and.........

To be continued....................

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