The Marriage Decision PART 2

The Marriage Decision PART 2
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..........Be either to wait hopelessly for seven years summed to nine years before he will settle down and even think of marriage. Or to forsake him and his family in a time like this.

But then going into dilemma over who to marry again will be like another series of deciding either to chew the gum or eat the meat because one has to go for another.

Really at this point permit me to say we ladies suffer more than men in the aspect of marriage. Theirs maybe expanses and work issues; but ours is emotions, dilemmas and fears of not falling into the wrong hands in as much as we want to enjoy wealth and comfort.
And I think that emotions have a big part to play, after all we also contribute to the Marriage.

Don't even try to judge me, wait till it's your turn.

Hopefully I will be thirty eight years old when I will be finally married, and to live with a man who I never knew was guilty of illegal drug business is another thing.

..... He only told me he was a business man and a despirate and innocent young lady like me ; looking for a good man, believed him.

... It's two years now, this guy I meet in one of the entrepreneurship seminar I attended few months ago won't let me rest over marriage issue. I have told him to give me some time to put things in order.

But most often, we always have to quarrel and fight over certain things. Soon, he stopped caring I lost him to another woman.

I cried heaven and earth for him to come back to me, but he never did.

"See Bestie ; you will just have to calm down and forget about all this your impatience and always being right attitude. Men like to take the lead !. it's their nature, you don't force them ; you only pet them. It's either you wait for Donald or you work on your character."

Suli, my lady friend said without even considering my tears because all through she has stood by me and now it seem she's fed up, but don't want to hurt me.

I had to work it out with myself on my character.

I meet with Donald's family and explained to them, thank God his mother was the understanding type.

Finally I have settled down and but not with Donald. Jude is his name and to an extent we are doing well in our marriage.

To learn;

# Your impact and attitude in a relationship is what would determine if a man will marry you and not necessarily your presence.

## Bauty is not everything in a relationship; character is.

(Relationship Facts by Sir G.O)

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